A Permission Slip to Your Own Desire
14 days to stop making yourself smaller — and come home to the woman who's allowed to want more, take up space, and not apologize for either.
Claim your placeYou round down what you want. You soften the ask. You add the "this is silly, but—" before you say the thing you actually mean.
Somewhere you learned your wanting was too much. That being easy to handle was safer than being fully yourself. So you became manageable. Agreeable. Small enough that no one had to adjust.
And it worked — until the resentment. The numbness. The quiet exhaustion of living one size below your own.
You're not too much. You've spent years being less than you are — and some part of you is done.
Awareness, desire, action, integration — a real arc, not themed days.
Before you can want more, you have to catch yourself making it small. You'll find exactly where — and whose comfort you've been carrying.
Desire is information, and you've been trained to distrust yours. Here you name what you actually want — without calling it greedy.
The real work. You make the ask you've been avoiding, take up one increment of real space, and stay standing when people feel the shift.
One bold act isn't the win — keeping the space is. You'll write your own permission slip, in your own hand, and seal it in ceremony.
$247
Founding cohort · first 10 women
Claim your placeDoors close August 12 — or when the 10 founding spots are gone
You don't need permission to want more. But sometimes you need 14 days to remember you were never asking for too much.
— Isabella · HER ERA